Nice Girls Just Don't Get It: 99 Ways to Win the Respect You Deserve, the Success You've Earned, and the Life You Want

By Lois P. Frankel, Carol Frohlinger

Offering the same brand of practical, no-holds-barred, expert advice that made Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office an international million-copy bestseller,  Nice Girls Just Don’t Get It teaches us the skills we need to turn from a nice girl into a winning woman, not just in our careers but in our relationships, families, and everyday lives.

Have you ever felt invisible? Taken advantage of? Reluctant (or unable) to articulate what you really want? If so, join the club. The nice girls club.  Nice girls – that’s right, girls – are those  more concerned with pleasing others than with addressing their own needs and haven’t yet learned how to overcome the childhood messages cultural stereotypes keeping them from gettingtheir voices heard, their needs met, and the lives they want.

This book will turn those nice girls into winning women. That is, women who factor their own needs in with those of others, confront those who treat them disrespectfully,  maintain healthy and mutually beneficial relationships with appropriate boundaries –  and as a result, are happier and more successful in every area of their life.

In 2004, Lois Frankel blew the lid off so many of our long-held ideas about gender and success with her bestselling Nice Girls Don’t Get the Corner Office, which went on to become such a huge phenomenon, the term “nice girls” has secured a place in our cultural lexicon. Here, Frankel teams up with negotiation expert Carol Frohlinger to bring this bestselling advice out of the workplace and provide a broader set of skills that any woman – whether a CEO or stay at home mom –  can use to win anywhere, with anyone.

Presented in the straightforward, digestible format that helped make  Nice Girl’s Don’t Get the Corner Office an instant hit, Frankel and Frohlinger outline 7 practical strategies and 99 supporting tactics that every winning woman should know.

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